Anonymous said: It's not necessarily gay if both my friend and me get erections when I spank him, is it? My pants are never down, but of course his are. He's pretty private about why he needs to be punished, but I do it because it's clear how much better he feels after it, I mean after he stops sobbing. It's a once a week thing and there's nothing sexual about our friendship. I hug him when I'm done because he needs it, and then he pulls up his pants. This isn't automatically homo, though, right?
I hope there is a homosexual component in your relation, since being gay is great. Don’t be afraid of your feelings. Sexuality is way bigger than sex.